Anonymous Pakistan 03/03/2020 Below is a question the sister wanted me to ask a scholar. Question: I’m not able to love my husband. I’m a dutiful wife and a mother. I treat him so well that he’s happy with me and doesn’t have a hint about the way I feel for him or the lack of it. He’s a good man, but my heart is with someone else even though I’m not in contact with him. I’m like a caged bird that sings for and entertains it’s master but awaits for the cage to be opened to fly away. The cage is this marriage. Whether it ends with my own death or his death, whether in this world or the next, I’m only awaiting my freedom from this cage to join the one who has my heart. My question is, am I being disloyal towards my husband and committing an oppression? Is divorcing him farad on me under this circumstance? I’m staying in this marriage for other benefits and conveniences it has offered for myself and my children and except for my heart, I’ve given my husband eve...
